Volunteers and donors beware!

 I am sure everyone is touched by the outpouring of donations and manual labor that our fellow Staten Islanders have contributed in the aftermath of Hurricane Sandy.  I have a word of caution however.  Yesterday I spent an hour scrambling for pet supplies to bring to Wagner High School because I received an alert from a pet rescue organization on facebook asking for “SOS” help for the animals temporarily displaced there.  Now, me being the animal fanatic that I am went tearing through my house for dog blankets, collars, leashes, etc.  I was so happy to be contributing to a cause that I believe so strongly in, (the welfare of animals).  When Frank and I got to the high school around 8:30pm, the lead staff there basically said thanks but no thanks, the animals did not need anything and were fine.  Took the wind right out of my sails!  Due to blog feedback, I wish to clarify, that I think there may have been a miscommunication.  I was informed through a social network that Susan Wagner needed "X" supplies as soon as possible for pets.  I went shortly after reading that announcement.  When I arrived at the high school, the volunteers, police officers and someone managing the animals told me that nothing was needed.  There was no mention of this organization scamming anyone on my part, (and I apologize if you feel that I did, clearly not my intention).  I felt misinformed, and no one at Susan Wagner could clarify for me either.  My whole basis for this blog entry is the fact that so many people are trying to help but efforts are becoming very unorganized and convoluted.  I respect any animal rescue organization for trying to help in any way that they can and I would wholeheartedly support them in any way I know how.  Myself and the media are hearing reports such as animals are being euthanized or morgues are being set up in intermediate schools that it is just very difficult to get the real story.  

There are, unfortunately, people who are using the relief and aid being supplied in unethical manners.  I work with a woman who comes from a very generous family.  She is constantly helping others less fortunate.  What she has been doing since the storm is getting text message alerts from a community liaison who forwards the needs of one particular household that was affected by sandy.  So, she has been collecting the items needed and delivering them to the specific house.  This is far more effective than just dropping items off at a huge donation center where the goods do not reach the people fast enough and are not organized. 

In this fashion my coworker has been delivering aid to people that need it the most.  However, there are always some rotten apples in the bunch.  One text gave her the address of someone and the list of items needed.  When she called and spoke to the woman, in addition to clothes the victim said she needed dog/cat and rabbit food.  Hmmm.  So my angelic coworker goes and buys everything, even the rabbit food and brings it to the victim’s house…who had a gardener in her front yard and zero damage to her property and who didn’t live in the flood zones.  My coworker just dropped the bags at her house and left.

Now, my co worker is wiser.  One of the next texts she gets comes from a woman who does live around New Dorp Beach (one of the more devastating areas) and she is requesting baby supplies and baby food.  When my coworker calls and asks what age the infant is and for a bit more background information, the “victim” says, “well the baby will not be here until December!”

CAN YOU IMAGINE! 

My class act coworker simply said I am sorry ma’am but these supplies are needed for children and families that are already here and are in dire need of items NOW.  My co worker said can you believe I was going to contribute to someone's baby shower?!  

I have two things to take away from this.  Do not become disillusioned because there are scammers and cheats out there.  The work you are doing and intentions you have are good.  There are still plenty of authentic people out there that can still use your help.  Two, use caution before committing yourself wholeheartedly to a task.  I was so dismayed after going to the high school and being turned away that it actually made me resent the staff there.  Do not let that happen!  Better your communication skills, ask who, what, when, where, and why.  Make the most of your volunteer efforts by weeding out nonsense like the scenarios above.  Most importantly, believe that the impact you had made a difference in someone’s life.  After all, that is what keeps hope alive.

Please donate to a great cause

I know the entire virtual community has been inundated with requests for donations in the aftermath of hurricane sandy.  I recognize that this is a trying time for everyone, not just those who lost their homes or loved ones.  I have a special request for a longtime good friend of mine, Chris Ostrow.  Not to dwell too much on his background, suffice to say he lost both his parents at a young age and had to grow up faster than most kids should.  He is doing a spectacular job raising his younger brother and was just managing to stay afloat financially.  Unfortunately, Chris and his brother and black lab had to relocate their home after the hurricane hit.  They lost their home, and their cars.

I can't imagine what it must be like to not have my mom and dad, (as crazy as they are).  I can't imagine not being able to go home to a familiar setting and my own, warm bed.  I can't imagine what it must be like to be worried about where to live because most apartments will not take big dogs.  A truly hard and nomadic lifestyle is what Chris and his brother are unfortunately used to.

Please, when you are perusing the hundreds of requests for fundraising money, please consider donating any amount to help Chris out.  You do not need to know him in order to sympathize with his story.  He works full time at a non profit institution and embodies totally the philosophy of giving back to the community.  I am a firm believer in the idea that those less fortunate are always the ones to give you the shirts off their back.  If anyone needs it now, it's the Ostrows.

Please visit the link below to donate securely.  Remember, any amount counts!  Thank you and count your blessing everyday!

http://gogetfunding.com/project/chris-ostrow-hurricane-sandy-relief-fund

If you are having trouble with the link just go to "gogetfunding.com" and keyword in the search bar Chris Ostrow.